FACTS: February 2011

Wednesday, 23 February 2011

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Tuesday, 22 February 2011

BLACK MONEY OF REPUBLIC INDIA

"MONEY IN SWISS BANK UNTIL 2006 YR IS AROUND 66 LACS CRORES "

Raja challiah committee defines any Individual or business organisation knowingly money not shown in the books of accounts is called BLACK MONEY.

Global financial integrity organisation calculations say since 1948 to 2008 the money migrated to overseas is more than 20 lac crores.Apart from this black money under rotation in India itself is more than 25 lac crores.

Ram jetmilani and subash kashyap and few others filed a public litigation case with honourable supreme court to fight against black money and thus supreme court is involved in extracting the money...

The person who earns 5000/- per month even that small employee tries to evade taxes. The sinners of this black money ghost are wide..The sinners list starts from middle class people and ends with richest people who travel in charted flights and migrate billions of crores of rupees to overseas...

Manufacturing organisations produce duplicate products only to evade excise duties and organisations and individuals create duplicate import documents only to evade some custom duties and above all to avoid sales tax and income taxes. People keep on trying to invent new strategies and the money gained from all such sources are not shown in accounts and all these routes paves a way to creation of BLACK MONEY..

Cine actors are well versed to give punching dialouges on screen and do all welfare oriented movies but are they showing the real accounts does any actor or actress will really show the actual remuneration? Factonism and Terrorism is worst evils in India. They harass people and claim lacs of money which are never shown in accounts and they in turn produce movies and Total film and Real estate Industry is corrupted.

The mother of BLACK MONEY is corrupted politicians.Sources say the more than 50% money deposited in SWISS and other overseas banks belongs to politicians and their close relatives..The business tycoons and other related people evade taxes in huge numbers and such money is donated to some damn political parties during elections with a motive to gain from political parties later..The election commission records show the money spent by MLA's and MP's are never real picture..The contestants spend crores and parties spend hundreds of crores of money into elections canvassing but fools shows nominal expenditure and the fools of election commission agree to it...The damn system is corrupted...Irrespective any party congress to communist every party every contestant and every politician is involved in this BLACK MONEY process...

The Bureaucrats includes IAS and IPS officers and other staff who may not open overseas accounts safe guard their money in form of plots and flats and recently ACB raids show the bureaucrats homes safe lockers where full of money and ACB officials needed trolley to carry such cash..This the fate of dying INDIA.

State and Central Govts spends crores and crores of rupees for social welfare programmes and MLA's and MP's and Beuracrats and no exceptions every man hierarchy involved in implementation of social schemes loot the money and finally sources and committee's say only 12 paise in a rupee is passed to Common man..The rest 88 paise in a rupee is again becomes Damn unaccounted money or otherwise called BLACK money...

Whenever there is purchases involved whether it is import of arms and ammunitions or calling of tenders for roads and water and other related works the respective shares of money is transferred to their respective accounts secretly...The people involved in such activities never worked with clean hands...If the seller or exporter denies for corruption then such exporter deal is cancelled....no need to say n number of scams are based on this....

In a year people travelling to Switzerland are more than one lakh people and I don't think so that all these people only going to Switzerland for a pleasure.Mr Arvind virmani says 75 % who are in falling in the tax bracket never pays a single paise towards taxes...

Black money is utilised in stock markets and real estate and the result is the worst company shares which don't even have enough fundamentals are rising madly and similarly the most worst piece of land is priced too much and net result is the common man cannot buy a small piece of land becoz it is too expensive for him..sources say out of total money circulated 50% is black moneys share this results in Govt is losing 50% of income...

Swiss banking association says until 2006 the total money in their accounts from Indians is 66 lac crores..To reconvert and get back this money in books again their are n ways and easiest way is money invested in India through FII's after some time the same company or shares are sold for losses on some benami organisations or individuals and this results in accounted money again...This is simple logic used in stock markets,commodities market,real estate and other related markets..The money invested in last financial year by FII's is nearly one lac 30 thousands crores this may be Indians money but incoming sources might be different..This logics are well known to SEBI and ENFORCEMENT and TAX officials but all are in the system and all are sinners and every one is corrupted...

This evil of black money is not new to world previously America,Australia,Germany,Italy countries undergone this problem but the GOVT's of these countries acted firmly and strongly and crores of money which is looted by Fernandez nachos.Even Pakistan was able to get back the money from bank which is deposited in Benazir and Zardari accounts..

IF we are able to get back the total money deposited in Swiss and over seas accounts we can really perform miracles..Govt can built roads for some lakhs of kilometers,New railway lines can be established..70% of Indian population can be provided with employment opportunities,All the farmers loans can be waived off resulting in no suicides,If one village is rewarded with 4 crores then that village will be guaranteed with full facilities,If the Total black money comes back home, India will be in top 10 of richest countries..Industries will flourish and Indian GDP will touch sky...

President of India MRS Prathibha Patel announced in parliament that she will get back this unaccounted money back to home..In other words All this money is GOVT's money becoz it escaped from the eyes of law so Govt can get back the money...BUT CAN WE DO IT is the trillion dollar question??? Who knows how many of our law makers accounts are with Swiss bank????

SWISS BANK IS THE ONLY BANK IN THIS UNIVERSE WHICH RUNS ON DAMN PRINCIPLE "DEPOSIT MONEY AND DETAILS OF ACCOUNT HOLDER(WHO EVER IT MAY BE) IS KEPT HIGHLY CONFIDENTIAL IRRESPECTIVE OF ANY CIRCUMSTANCES"

Tuesday, 15 February 2011

CORRUPTION @ CHILKUR BALAJI

The Balaji Temple is situated at Chilkur, 25 kilometers from Hyderabad off the Vikarabad road and on the banks of Osman Sagar lake. Dedicated to Sri Balaji / Lord Venkateshwara, this enchanting temple was built in the south Indian style of temple architecture and hosts some of the most worshiped Hindu deities. Approximately 75,000 to 1,00,000 devotees visit the lord in a week. Generally temple gets heavy rush on Friday and Sunday .

A so-called important feature of the temple is that there is no hundi / offerings box. Instead, tradition states that the only fee the lord requires is for the devotee to make Parikrama / rounds of the temple, pradakshinas. The usual procedure is to take 11 pradakshinas and then express the wish. If the wish comes true the devotee shall promise to take 108 more pradakshinas and which most of the times comes true / granted. He is also called "VISA GOD", an urban legend states that those who pray and make the 11 pradakshinas with a VISA to USA / any other country will obviously be granted and will come back for his 108 Pradakshinas.

Whether or not a wish is really granted after the pilgrimage to the temple, pradakshinas are done is still open for debate. What is not, however, is the fact that Chilkur Balaji temple is one of Hyderabad’s enduring religious legacies.

The temple at Chilkur is managed by the hereditary trustee Sri M.V. Soundara Rajan and Sri C.S. Gopala Krishna. The entire family of the archaka, including the women have dedicated themselves to serve the Lord.

FAITH IS GOD is the saying which practically works in EVERY temple. I visited d temple with my friends in 1997 for the first time primarily because it used to be a peaceful and away from the maddening urban crowds. It was such a serene and beautiful place and today after so many controversies and crowded devotees with their list of desires and wants has caught up with the urban madness. This temple is very old and has a history of around 600 yrs.

There are n number of mysteries involved in this temple management.Recently many court cases has been registered against the archakas.

My findings and my personal research has yielded the following shocking / mind blowing facts which are ignored, and corruption prevails in a big way...

No of Devotees/ month	75000 X 4 = 300,000
Coconuts per month	300,000 X 2 =600,000	600,000 X 0.75 Rs = Rs. 450,000
Parking per month	200,000	200,000 vehicles X Rs. 10 = Rs. 2,000,000
Sale of land	18 acres	16 acres X 1.5 crores = Rs. 24 cr
Publications per month	VAK 25,000 copies	25,000 X Rs. 5 = Rs. 125,000
rent on shops let out per month	100 shops	100 X Rs 450 = Rs 45,000/

So total amounts involved per month is Rs. 26,20,000/- this without including the donations in cash and food grains.
In the inception of temple in 1440 AD it was managed by the villagers and no brahmins are involved in day to day activites of temple.
The temple has good amount of land as its property it had around 18 acres of land
The present so called trustee involved in temple activites since 60 odd years or so
there used to be hundi for offerings which I have personally seen and have offered some money in hundi in years 1997 to 1999.
The archakas are able to draw huge crowds by establishing faith in the minds and hearts of devotees is a good sign.
The faith created by archakas attracted huge crowds
Due to sudden boom of real estate properties the lands in the area of moinabad and chilkur reached sky rocketing prices.
Now the archakas are directly or indirectly involved in selling the lands to some third parties and the third parties acquired land and started using for their personal use.
Now the temple is hardly having any land with it.
The temple was under endowments department since very long years
When endowments department started to take the temple under its control 100% because the temple started drawing huge crowds the archakas opposed and started agitations.
in year 2005 or onwards to avoid GOVT to take over temple the archakas started a new concept called no hundi temple.
The GOVT is having the receipts and payments account statement handwritten by archakas in yrs between 1920 to 2000
When no money is collected in the form of donations or so how is the temple running its daily activities?
The archakas boasts that they are working free with out money. Which is suspicious?
The house keeping people should be paid some money who is paying them?
How are the basic bills like electricity and water being paid ? who is paying them
How many years does archakas family to service to GOD without taking any offerings?what do they eat and how they make their ends meet?
Devotees might be donating in kind......
When temple attract huge amount of crowd their might be huge offerings in form of kind. Sources say huge amount of ghee,food grains are received.
Whether donations accepted in the form of cash or kind it is donations. This means indirectly archakas are accepting donations, though it called no hundi temple it is accepting good amount of donations.
The food grains are arriving in huge stocks and who is taking care of them?Sources say these food grains are sold in market again in exchange of cash.
Since 5 years many stores dealing with toys and pooja samagri and food outlets are established around temple premises. Approx 80 to 90 stores have come up. Sources say these shop keepers are paying Rs 400 to 500/- monthly rent to the archakas.
Every devotee offers coconut to LORD and half is taken to Homes as prasadam and the other half is offered to the LORD which goes to the archakas.
The coconuts collected in the week ends filling up atleast 2 small lorries and the money collected by selling such cocunuts is collected by archakas.
The Diety is called VISA GOD many prospects who aim to go overseas visit this temple and By GOD's blessings they could be sucessful in getting visas.
The people who are able to get visas send good amount of thanksgiving cheques as their courteousy to LORD and since it does not have a proper bank account; cheques which comes in dollars are encashased by archakas and their relatives.
But archakas (sounder rajan ) family are native of tamilnadu and he left the job to start the service to GOD which seems appreciable but suspicious?
The archakas are so powerful that they have misled the devotees and brought pressure on the Govt and a special G.O passed in assembly to exclude this temple from Endowments department. But still many many things seems to be unanswered.

With all due repect to the archakas and their services ..... I ask one question. All said and done dont we devotees need to know what is happening to the Lords offerings ?! Those offerings which are a result of all our faith.

With so much smoke screen and Iron curton at times it gets even the more difficult to believe in the people maintaining public funds. TRANSPARENCY is the NEED of the hour.

I don't deny the miracles happening by believing chilkur LORD but I think too much corrupted and too much money involved in running and maintaining this temple.Again I stress my old statement

MONEY CORRUPTS; even the most FAITHFUL are no EXCEPTION

"WEALTH SPOILS EVERYONE."

SALARIES OF MEMBER OF PARLIAMENT OF REPUBLIC INDIA .

An Important Issue!

government approves 200% MPs’ salary hike , Still some MP's are unhappy.

Now , MP's take home salary is Rs 45 lakh per anum + other allowances.

TOTAL expense for a MP [having no qualification] per year :Rs.60,95,000
For 534 MPs, the expense for 1 years:

Rs. 325,47,30,000 Crores

3254730000 X 5 years =

Rs.1627,36, 50000 crores ( One Thousand six hundred crores plus..)

this is the present condition of our country:

1627 crores could make their lives livable!!
Think of the great democracy we have…

Do Mp's really need salary hike? Do they really wait for 30th of every month for salary credits to there bank accounts, like we do every month ????

Apart from official salaries and perks they are not satisfied
and try to invent and involve in every scam.
All the M.P's irrespective of any party is tainted in one or
other issue...

I THINK DEMOCRACY GONE TO DOGS.

Tuesday, 8 February 2011

CHRISTIANISATION OF ANDHRA PRADESH

"I hold that proselytizing under the cloak of humanitarian work is unhealthy to say the least. It is most resented by people here. Religion after all is a deeply personal thing. It touches the heart. Why should I change my religion because a doctor who professes christianity as his religion has cured me of some disease, or why should the doctor expect such a change whilst I am under his influence? " - Mahatma Gandhiji - Young India: April 23, 1931

GOD punishes for the sins done in present life and for the sins done in past life and above all he will puts the sinner in hell and gives the final treatment.

The conversions are Rampant , in one instance 10,000 people got converted to Christianity in one day in Ongole , Andhra pradesh (South Indian Province)

Neither the Indian press nor the western correspondents bothered to write about what made Hindus angry in Karnataka: Newlife, one important westernfunded missionary centre (http://www.newlifevoice.org), began making conversions in and around Mangalore by accosting poor people in market areas, or in bus stands, befriending them and then taking them to churches to introduce them to the father.
Upon introduction they were paid Rs 2,500 per person and then taken to the Velankanni shrine, in Tamil Nadu, where they would get another Rs. 3,000.
When they finally converted to Christianity by changing the name, they got an incentive of Rs 10,000 onwards.

There are more than 4,000 foreign Christian missionaries involved in conversion activities across different states.
In Tripura, there were no Christians at the time of independence. There are 1,30,000 today, a 90 per cent increase since 1991. The figures are even more striking in Arunachal Pradesh, where there were only 1,750 Christians in 1961, but 1.3 million today.

With YSR's advent in 2004, evangelical activities increased alarmingly and mass conversions were witnessed in rural areas on a large scale. His open pandering to Church and missionaries emboldened evangelists to go all out in their conversion activities. They dared focus on Hindu pilgrimage sites such as Badrachalam, Simhachalam, Srisailam, Ahobilam, Mangalagiri, Kalahasthi, and didn't spare Thirumala-Thirupati! YSR aided the Church and missionaries in many ways.

He sanctioned Rs. 80, 000/- per Church for repair works in August 2006 as per GO MS. No: 21 dt 22/08/2006 (CM Reddy okays public money for Churches - Deccan Chronicle, 23 August 2006) and an aid of Rs. 1.5 lakhs for the construction of each Church.This is done while the government is controlling over 30,000 Temples and taking all their revenue. Only 15% of temple revenue is given back for temple maintenance and salaries of priests. Over 40,000 Priests earn a salary of only Rs. 500/- to Rs. 1000/- per month. The rest of the revenue is being used for other government schemes and minority welfare schemes, as in Tamil Nadu.

The AP government is also auctioning cows and calves donated by devotees to Bhagwan Narasimha Temple at Simhachalam to owners of abattoirs. With so much of revenue from temples, it is unfortunate that the government has not bothered to maintain a decent Goshala respecting the sentiments of Hindu devotees.

The state government identified 7000 acres of temple lands for sale to raise revenues of Rs. 20, 000 crores. In many places, those lands have been allegedly encroached upon by Churches and Missionaries with the connivance of government officials. Some have been given for construction of Churches and Mosques.

Thousands of Churches have been planted by missionaries throughout the state totally disproportionate to the Christian population - one Church for every seven Christians! The number of Churches stands at 148,000; the temples are 190,000 (one for every 350 Hindus) and Mosques figure at 176,000 (one for every 40 Muslims) The pastors of the planted Churches straightaway started their 'harvests' particularly in rural areas, where mass conversions have been rampant for the last five years. While the government figure of Christian population is 1.5% (2001 census), the Church itself puts the figure at 10 to 12%, which could certainly be more in view of the large scale conversion in the state. Most converts are Scheduled Castes who pretend to be Hindus to enjoy reservation benefits, while they practice Christianity at home. The AP Assembly passed a resolution for SC status for Christian and Muslim SC converts.

Emboldened by the government's attitude, missionaries made a focused assault on Tirumala Tirupati. The YSR government facilitated such activities by releasing a GO saying Bhagwan Venkateswara's assets were only two hills covering an area of 27.5 sq. kms., and the other five hills would be taken over by the government for converting them into a picnic spot with multiplexes, food courts, commercial, sports and entertainment infrastructures including a rope-way to reach the top of the hills.

Fortunately, the AP High Court quashed the GO and the government beat a retreat after fierce Hindu agitations. {Judgment of a Division Bench of the Andhra Pradesh High Court1997 (2) ALD Page 59 (DB) - Tallapakam Koppu Raghavan Vs State of A.P}

But the Church never stopped evangelical activities on the hills, sparking off widespread agitation by the Hindu community. Sri Swarupanandendra Swami of Saradha Peetam, Hyderabad, convened a Seers' Meet in Delhi to take necessary actions against religious conversions. Subsequently, Sri Vishweshra Theertha Swamiji of Pejawar Mutt, Udipi, organized a massive public meeting in Thirupathi with the support of Hindu organizations.
He also constituted a fact finding committee under the Chairmanship of Sri Justice G. Bikshapathy, former Judge of AP High Court with Sri Justice K.B. Siddappa, former Judge of APHC, Sri TS Rao, former Director General of Police, Andhra Pradesh, Smt. Dr. P Geervani, former Vice-Chancellor of Sri Padmavathi Mahila Viswa Vidyala and Sri Dr. R Shrihari, former Vice-Chancellor of Dravidian University, Kuppam, as members. The committee held a preliminary sitting on 17 June 2006 at Hyderabad and visited Tirupathi and Tirumala on 21-22 June 2006 and held a public enquiry and subsequently issued public notice in the dailies and in electronic media.

The TTD's commodities contract also went to a Christian company by name JRG Wealth Management. The Hindu-Business Line reported, "The introduction of JRG Wealth Management Company's commodity futures terminal at Tirupati gave an on-line price reference mechanism to the second richest temple township in the world, next only to the Vatican".

Though YSR later kept out of Hindu pilgrimage centres, he gave a free hand to Churches and missionaries to carry out evangelical activities in the rest of the state. His son-in-law Anil Kumar is an evangelist with his own ministries. A Brahmin-convert, Brother Anil Kumar claims to be a preacher with anointing of holy spirits, powerful and authoritative teacher, revealer of Kingdom's principles, warrior of faith and a healer through miracles doing wonders in the name of Jesus.

When he arranged for a mammoth congregation, as huge as US evangelist Benny Hinn's, the government's machineries were allegedly used to make the show a big hit. Hundreds of banners were erected throughout the twin cities and other major cities and towns to welcome Brother Anil Kumar. YSR participated with his wife and daughter. The evangelical meet came in for severe criticism and drew flak from the opposition. But when confronted by the media on the use of official machinery to promote his son-in-law, YSR had quipped, "What is wrong in that?" It is believed Brother Anil Kumar has been placed as rival to the well-known evangelist KA Paul, also from AP.

After winning the elections, YSR and his family went on a pilgrimage to Bethlehem, at the end of May 2009 to offer thanksgiving prayers for the victory of the Congress party. He did the same in 2004 also. Little wonder that he subsidized Bethlehem/Jerusalem pilgrimage for Christians, first of its kind in the country, allotting a budget of 2 crores of rupees for 2008-09, apart from 5 crores of rupees for repairs of churches and mosques.

Small wonder that Christians of all denominations favoured him in the 2009 elections. Rayalaseema Regional Christians' Sadassu in Kadapa called upon Christians in the four Rayalaseema districts to vote for Congress to ensure further progress. Bishop of Rayalaseema Diocese, Yesu Varaprasad, former Bishop CVM Fredrick Babu, Rev. Fr. Samson and Banhur Babu of CSI Church, Pastor CSI Church, secretary Samuel Babu and Zion College of Physical Education K. Rajarathnam Isaac were present at Sadassu. They appreciated the various welfare schemes launched by government.

The London based "Religious Intelligence" mourned YSR's death by publishing an article titled "Head of Indian state, a Christian, killed in chopper crash," by Delhi-based journalist Vishal Arora. It said YSR was a second-generation Christian, as his father Raja Reddy was converted by missionaries while serving in the military in Burma. It claimed without any evidence that "several" Christian priests and workers were killed in "numerous" attacks in the last few years and blamed "Hindu Nationalists" for those attacks!

Hindus knowingly or unknowingly using European style shirts and trousers and gals are using all sorts of western clothes. Al mostly we are much influenced by west in day to day activities and the funds invested in India is ruling our financial markets.Much of our markets stocks,shares,gold,food grains everything is controlled by west.

If we don't change our mindset and if we don't change to needed things, I'm sure Hindus shall be called deemed Christian's.Because of attitude and life style Hindus and Christians are seems to be same in India except difference in worship.Many of Hindus forgot their traditions,values and other important things of Hinduism and behaving like Christians.Thank GOD they haven't changed places of worship from mandir to church..May all converted Christians come back to home religion.

Monday, 7 February 2011

WIFE:A BETTER HALF OR BITTER HALF???

In Indo-Aryan languages, "Patni", means wife. The woman who shares every thing in this world with her husband and he does the same, including their identity. Decisions are ideally made in mutual consent. A wife usually takes care of anything inside her household, including the family’s health, the children’s education, a parent’s needs.
In Tamil, a wife is known as a “Manaivee”. “Manai” means “house”, and “manaivee” “head of a household”. The majority of Hindu marriages in South India even now are arranged marriages, which means parents will search for bride / groom, through relatives, neighbours, contacts / aquaintances or even brokers. Once they find a suitable family (family of same caste, culture and financial status), they proceed with discussions directly. In the past decades, a marriage out of love has become a rivaling model to the arranged marriage.

Indian law has recognised marital rape, sexual, emotional or verbal abuse of a woman by her husband as crimes. The Britannica mentions that “Until quite recently, the only property of which a Hindu woman was the absolute owner was her strīdhana, consisting mainly of wedding gifts and gifts from relatives.”In Hinduism ,a wife is known as a "Patni" or "Ardhangini", "the better half". She takes all cares of her Husband and Family. In Hinduism, a woman or man can get married, but only have one wife or husband respectively.

wife makes / mars home :
In INDIAN cultures wife is defined as shakti. once she gets married she switches to her husband's family and takes care of the whole family and she starts leading the family.. like the face is the index of mind... similarly ghar ki Lakshmi smile and happiness creates prosperity and happiness. History says wife was 100% follower of husband uninterruptedly. They used to say for a wife husband is everything.. he is more than GOD.. "pati pratakshya divam" Rani mandodhari wife of demon ravan was so dedicated a woman, she could not oppose her husband as she strictly believes pati is GOD. Maa anasuya stopped sunset to save her husband's life.. If i go on there will be n number of facts where a wife has done everything to save her husband and created miracles... but all this history is past. Now She is a kali and is ruling this world.. she has started doing everything including spoiling relations and cultures and attitudes and what not...no exceptions to him..

I hope demonic role she wears, as the ruler of kaliyug(present yug) has started her work... now why I'm saying this I find a sea change in a wife's role. Now a days wives do help husbands in financial matters as they work or run some businesses. females now-a-days are well educated and they score top ranks and maximum females are good in education. females are able to work in every field without any exception. I think there is a change for better with respect to females.

similarly mindset, desires, roles, attitudes and environment of family and basic needs of the that so called traditional family which existed in past have changed radically.These parameters have influenced and evolved the modern woman, the modern wife to have strong set of mind.Wives are able to argue with husbands, convince them and they are able to fight with them both literally, and in the spirit of it and they are ready to accuse / abuse husbands. Not only this now a days wives complain that husband hardly gives time and takes care and hardly love. when they get chance to fight in family or with husband they are in the forefront. The maximum interest in making money and earning name and fame is not shown in homes which spoils the relations and environment in home.

   wife as bahu or daughter in law is unable to do her duties to in laws and in turn in-laws are not so happy.This is common problem which is faced in every home. Similarly bahu is not happy with in-laws and above all now-a-days bahu is not taking much interest in giving samskar to children and they are only concerned in admitting them in international schools.

   I'm sure now-a-days bahu's are not behaving same as good old days bahu. I don't want bahu's to be like slaves but i dont want wives to be too dominative and try to control their emotions in family issues and above all try to control their ego's and try to control words while speaking with family members... It is a matter of balancing and who can do it better than the Woman. While the claim for rights is appreciable , what about the duties / responsibilities.

   Hope all females take it in sportive way and try to behave in harmonious ways with family and society.. Hope the balancing act balances the lives..

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